but, i do think it is rewarding stupid life choices...
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i don't think the scholarship would give them reason to get pregnant....
but, i do think it is rewarding stupid life choices...
I'd rather laugh with
the sinners than cry with the saints
The sinners are much more fun... |
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Island Annie |
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So how long do you want to punish someone for a mistake they made when they were 14 or 15?
"How deadly stupid we are that we can study history and live through what we live through, and complacently
allow the same causes to put us through the same thing again!"
-Eleanor Roosevelt, 1934 |
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Gypsy |
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Staying in high school and getting accepted in to college, despite having made a
foolish mistake, is a "stupid life choice"?
My goodness, what a fuss you're making! - Dorothy
True art is moral: it seeks to edify life, not to debase it, to hold off, at least for a little while, the twilight of the gods and of us. - John Gardner The Old Mermaid's Tale: The Video | Mark S. Williams' F/V Black Sheep | Sponsored by Parlez-Moi Blog |
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d426 |
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One of the girls is going to be interviewed on Good Morning America this morning.... I am tivo'ing the show as I typeThe interview was ridiculous. Chris Coumo treated it like it was a big joke saying things like "this should be such a happy time and all this news coverage is making it hard for you to enjoy this wonderful time in your life", and "Chloe is such a cute name" and then leaning down and talking to the 17 year-old's pregnant belly. The girl was 17 and the boy was 20. Neither of them could form a coherent sentence. Certainly not a good interview at least as far as trying to stop Gloucester from looking beyond stupid! My great-neice is one of the 17 girls. Her logic and reasoning for getting pregnant was because her boyfriend was going to break up with her so she had to keep him!! Can there be a stupider reason??? When single shines the triple sun, What was sunder |
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Gypsy |
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Her logic and reasoning for getting pregnant was because her boyfriend was going to break up with her so she had to keep him!! Can there be a stupider reason??? Heck, d, I've known women in their thirties who got pregnant for the same reason --- dumb, dumb, dumb. So I guess making birth control more accessible won't go very far toward making nitwits any smarter....
My goodness, what a fuss you're making! - Dorothy
True art is moral: it seeks to edify life, not to debase it, to hold off, at least for a little while, the twilight of the gods and of us. - John Gardner The Old Mermaid's Tale: The Video | Mark S. Williams' F/V Black Sheep | Sponsored by Parlez-Moi Blog |
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d426 |
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Heck, d, I've known women in their thirties who got pregnant for the same reason --- dumb, dumb, dumb. I can't even wrap my head around "logic" like that!! So I guess making birth control more accessible won't go very far toward making nitwits any smarter.... A nitwit is a nitwit is a nitwit...I don't see much hope for change there! When single shines the triple sun, What was sunder |
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Gang of One |
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d426 wrote: If that's the truth...I truly, truly despair.
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globalwarmer07 |
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Uh. Gang? That is a pretty common reason for unplanned pregnancies. Called entrapment. Just ask Tom Brady.
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Island Annie |
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Just ask Tom Brady. Finally, something that made me laugh.
"How deadly stupid we are that we can study history and live through what we live through, and complacently
allow the same causes to put us through the same thing again!"
-Eleanor Roosevelt, 1934 |
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Gypsy |
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Sadly, that is very true. I once worked with a woman who did it THREE times ---
got pregnant three times because she was involved with a guy who was married and she thought it would force him to leave his wife (they didn't have
children and she said he always talked about how much he wanted kids). And she was in her 20s and 30s --- and had graduated from college. And he never did
leave his wife! So she wound up raising 2 children (she had 1 miscarriage) alone because she was an idiot.
Women used to think that having babies would save failing marriages, too. I had a cousin who was married but did not have any children and her mother was always worrying that if she didn't get pregnant her husband would leave her. He never did --- they are in their 60s now --- but her mother went to her grave convinced that her daughter was going to get dumped by her husband because she didn't produce a baby. That old-fashioned thinking is hard to comprehend but there are still a lot of people --- apparently --- who think that way.
My goodness, what a fuss you're making! - Dorothy
True art is moral: it seeks to edify life, not to debase it, to hold off, at least for a little while, the twilight of the gods and of us. - John Gardner The Old Mermaid's Tale: The Video | Mark S. Williams' F/V Black Sheep | Sponsored by Parlez-Moi Blog |
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Y DEVELOP |
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Called entrapment. Just ask Tom Brady.Really? |
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Gypsy |
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Yes, Y, "entrapment". Brady didn't know that if you have sex with
a woman she might get pregnant. If he had been aware of that he might have been more responsible in sowing his seeds... so to speak.
My goodness, what a fuss you're making! - Dorothy
True art is moral: it seeks to edify life, not to debase it, to hold off, at least for a little while, the twilight of the gods and of us. - John Gardner The Old Mermaid's Tale: The Video | Mark S. Williams' F/V Black Sheep | Sponsored by Parlez-Moi Blog |
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Zannylicious |
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d426 wrote: The kids even SAID that they weren't TRYING to get pregnant, it just happened.. What made me choke was the girl. Amanda, I beleive her name is, said something along the lines of "asking your mom to go get birth control is embarrassing and stuff, so, like, the nurse's office should be handing out contraceptives, anonymously" Oh TOTALLY Amanda!! Blame it on the Friggin' School nurse because you, nor your boyfriend want to walk into CVS and buy a pack of Trojans
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Gypsy |
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Judge for yourself: Good Morning America
My goodness, what a fuss you're making! - Dorothy
True art is moral: it seeks to edify life, not to debase it, to hold off, at least for a little while, the twilight of the gods and of us. - John Gardner The Old Mermaid's Tale: The Video | Mark S. Williams' F/V Black Sheep | Sponsored by Parlez-Moi Blog |
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Y DEVELOP |
Time to GET REAL! | ||
Saw a rep on NECN talking about this program.
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Dun Fudgin |
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After reading the replies there are some good pros & cons and a few foolish replies. I think the most important aspect is that Janet Ruth Young is trying
to bring something positive from this mess. In my view timing is an issue,at least as far as allowing it to be announced through the media. I would have gone
to school officials who then through counciling, inform the girls involved and their families of this scholarship.
But..... Her comment :"3. Because it's what they learned at home. Teen pregnancy is part of Gloucester's culture. Maybe these girls have mothers who became pregnant very early, too. And a teen whose mother got pregnant as a teen is likely to be sympathetic to a daughter in the same situation." I have to disagree strongly......Teen moms are probably the best advocate against teenage pregnancy! It's not a part of Gloucester culture,far from it ! This episode is hopefully a one time deal that because the word "pact" was used, has become sensationalized! True it never should have happened, And I'm sure teens AND adults will be better educated because of this. |
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Gang of One |
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For some non-hysterical balance to all this, the My View piece and the letter below it from Janet Ruth Young in today's GDT are wonderful. Right on the
money. Dun, you're just so off base about this...
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Dun Fudgin |
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Gang of One wrote: You agree with this?
That's your opinion! Nice moniker! |
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Gang of One |
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Don't be a fucking baby just because I disagree with you.
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Dun Fudgin |
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Gang of One wrote: Now I know why!
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